Origin
Stories Illustrate We Are All Related
Brandon
Sun “Small World” Column, Monday, February 6 / 17
Zack Gross
The challenge for many people these days is to find a way to
respond to the division and violence in the world, that both
expresses our true feelings and is appropriate to the
situation. There are both encouraging and discouraging
signs that people are “responding” – Mr. Trump banning refugees
coming from Islamic countries (that don’t do business with the
U.S.) and a Quebec man killing people while they peacefully
prayed.
Encouraging are the number of people who stood with Muslims when
their travel rights were curtailed and then their place of
worship was attacked. Our Prime Minister is being hailed
for his welcoming remarks and show of solidarity with Muslims
and other migrants seeking a new life in Canada. As the
Washington Post said, “Trump Sews Chaos, Canada Picks Up the
Pieces.”
As most Canadians live in a relatively privileged position, they
cannot always know personally the experience of facing
discrimination, whether the harm is done emotionally and/or
physically. As a member of the Jewish faith, I have
encountered anti-Semitism (and sometimes just insensitivity)
occasionally throughout my life, but not at the level that elder
generations suffered through the Holocaust and generations,
before and afterwards, of “otherness” at the hands of majority
populations.
The posters that people have been holding up at supportive
rallies across the country say “We Are All Immigrants,”
that is “walk a mile in their shoes and you will know what they
are going through and remember that you or your family members
were once immigrants and needed help and a place in the world.”
In the past year, I’ve learned what I would call four “origin
stories” that seem to fit this theme. Four friends have
told me that you don’t always know who you are, so you might be
oppressing or ignoring your brother or sister.
A Christian community, the Mennonites, relocated to Manitoba to
escape persecution in Russia many years ago. That “origin”
has been a big part of the consciousness of a friend of mine,
who is a prominent member of that community, all his life.
Recently, in examining his own family lineage, he realized that
his grandmother likely was Jewish. As someone always
wanting to learn, he embraced this as a way to see how diverse,
interesting and strong his background is.
A professor in Winnipeg I worked with who clearly has a Spanish
name and is a member of the Catholic Church, recently told me
that in doing research, she came to realize that a part of her
family had converted from Judaism to Catholicism to escape the
oppression of the Spanish Inquisition hundreds of years
ago.
Meanwhile, another friend of mine, whose father and mother
immigrated to Manitoba from England when they were young, found
out that his original English family had adopted a certain very
Anglo last name in their home country because, of all reasons,
many generations ago, they had purchased a business with that
name and saw this as a way to legitimize the purchase and
promote their store. When he asked elderly relatives about
this, they quoted the real family name which they think was
German, maybe Jewish, both of which might not be so popular in
Britain.
Finally, laughing, an Ontario relative of mine told the story of
her best friend whose father was as vocally anti-aboriginal as a
person can get – a redneck, as they say. That is, until
Ancestry and DNA proved that he indeed was part aboriginal
himself!
I find the Ancestry
web site a great way to discover one’s origins and the
implications of that. Many people today are a “dog’s
breakfast” of backgrounds: British Isles, Western and
Eastern Europe. With the great migrations that have
happened, not just since last year, but over the last fifty
years, and the changing attitudes as people get to know one
another, those origins will become more mixed and more global.
There are more and more families that have mixed religious and
racial backgrounds and, in Canada, many that don’t recognize any
particular faith.
Reading Manitoba history, whether of Brandon, Winnipeg or
smaller towns around the province, also shows us that what is
happening now has also happened in the past.
Neighbourhoods that housed poor immigrants from Eastern Europe a
hundred years ago often now house immigrants arriving
today. Negative comments about ethnic groups coming to our
country a hundred years ago are now repeated, and sometimes by
the descendants of the groups that immigrated and were
misunderstood or mistreated then.
The trends in today’s world, the population movements and coming
together of different cultures cannot be stopped but can be made
easier if embraced by all. This is not just our common
humanity but as my stories illustrate, our common origins, many
of which are still hidden from us.
Zack Gross is a former
Executive Director of Brandon’s The Marquis
Project.
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